trekietrans asked: I am in the middle of another delima, one of my best friends is transitioning, he's alot farther then I am, in fact he's more then likely going to be starting t soon, I am incredibly envious. I am really crushing on him bad and he likes me as well so we're kind of together. How do I keep my feelings on envy in check so this dosen't ruin any chance that I have of being with him. Did this happen to you before you started T? How did you deal with it?
I know how you feel, and I have dealt with a similar situation, and am currently still dealing with it. All I do is just remember that it’s going to make life better for said person, so you can’t discourage them, they’re still going to be the same person, and eventually it will be your turn, you just have to keeping thinking about the time when you will get to do those things, even if it is a awhile away, you will still get there, if you want that. Sorry I don’t really have much of an answer for this one. much luck with the new guy though.
